I´ve seen it quite a bit in the energetic coaching sessions I do with people, especially in the field of entrepreneurship or if someone wants to start being self-employed.
Some people think that they´ll do something for a few weeks, or months more or less regularly, with a little bit of dedication, and that miraculously their business or self-employment will build itself.
They expect unrealistic results that are not matching their input and the actions they are willing to take.
Dedication and work are also needed if you want to have a great relationship.
You have to talk with your partner, open up and be honest, while you dedicate yourself to the partner and the relationship.
It doesn´t matter which area of your life you’re looking at, there are certain cause and effect rules.
Here are some examples:
.) If you want to have a six-pack – work out
.) If you want a great business – build it constantly by putting in the work
.) If you want to be healthier – eat healthier
.) If you want enlightenment – meditate more and practice self-inquiry
.) If you want to get rid of your issues – work on yourself, or have someone work with you on yourself.
I think you get the point I want to make.
If you are doing all of the above you are increasing your chances and probabilities of success, but in reality, no one can guarantee that you´ll be successful.
It´s especially your issues that make all of the things mentioned more difficult.
Maybe something is blocking you from your inside, that you don´t want to move, or work, etc.
If you need support with getting to the root cause, i.e. why you are not moving further with your business or having a hard time in your relationship, feel free to contact me and we can look at it in a coaching session.
I wish you all the best, Richard.
